Today we are all Hokies.
If you’ve been on the internet since the chilling and deplorable massacre in
First of all how insane was it that NBC and other news outlets have been playing Cho Seung-Hui's video non-stop? NBC has it all over the place, yet Imus is too inappropriate for air. It goes to show you just how messed up this country is when news networks are airing these videos in their entirety yet bleeping out when Cho says "fuck" -- like that's the inappropriate thing about the goddamned videos.
Now back to my thoughts on people's reactions to the event. The reactions to the tragedy I’m speaking of here are not those of the Virginia Tech “family,” that being those related to the victims, VT students, staff, alumni, and the surviving victims themselves. Their grief is real, it’s palpable and the media is feeding off of it with reckless abandon. This event has hit them in ways I cannot begin to imagine.
I’m speaking of the average messageboard poster, a type of person with which we are all familiar. To the majority of people, the Virginia Tech killings have been reduced to a bumper sticker. I’ve seen more internet posts mostly consisting of “Hokies in our hearts” with little real commentary or insight about the tragedy. This has become a “Support Our Troops” sort of thing. It’s become just something people say because they think they’re supposed to without giving real support, without opening themselves up to the facts and events behind the catch phrase. People ignore the realities of the VT massacre the same way they ignore the war. What this saying has essentially become is a buffer for real discourse about the event. Now I don’t expect some expertly nuanced debate about psychiatric treatment in
I promise you this guy has no less than 4 ribbon stickers on his tailgate.
The point I’m getting at is people need to forget about the slogans, think about the shooting, don’t just fucking copy-paste a gif image or some slogan. Think of the victims and their families. Think of what drove the shooter to this dire end. Read the more insightful media coverage out there, not the sick sensationalist shit on Nancy Grace or Fox News. If the only reaction you have to the event is to act like a sheep and spit out the same thing you’ve seen posted a million times then just shut the hell up. You bring nothing to the table and don’t feel like you have to inject yourself into the tragedy. You don’t have to post anything at all about the events of this week. The entire country feels for these victims and their families, don’t trivialize it with some cliché.
A poster brought up the point that in October, when the Tigers take on the Hokies at Yes, come October many people may stand up and cheer for the Hokies, but only if they have a jumbotron to tell them to.
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I see your point, and I agree. This reminds me of the Lance Armstrong thing, where everyone wore one of those bracelets because it was more of an in-thing to do rather than about cancer awareness. Same thing here. Everyone's bandwagoning the VT massacre and printers won't be able to produce bumper-sticker ribbons quick enough because everyone will want to be in on the fashion trend as soon as possible.
ReplyDeleteI wonder how much air time the videos, writings, dreams, and thoughts of the victims will get?
ReplyDeleteLots (not all, but lots) of the bandwagoners are looking at saying "Hokies in our hearts" and showing a school logo with VT, etc. for the same reasons that they wave back or say hi when someone waves at them or greets them on the street, instead of sheer sympathy and grief.
Don't get me wrong, I'd rather them show this type of support than to ignore the events, but it just doesn;t seem genuine.
OoC, that's exactly my point. I don't mean to blast people who use these sayings and ribbons, they are offering some kind of support, I just mean that a lot of people aren't really thinking about the issue, it's just something between putting an American flag on your lapel and leaving your ski lift tag on your jacket, it's as much showing off that you're part of the group as it is really caring about something.
ReplyDeleteChili, thank you for speaking out about the sensationalist media coverage of this(insert cliche term here e.g. tragedy, event, massacre). I agree that it is absurd to not only release, but loop the rantings of a sick puppy who didn't get hugged enough as a child. We are tricked into thinking that with the viewing of the tape, pictures, and reading his "manifesto" that we will come to some understanding as to why he did the things he did. However, those people that are directly affected are kept in a state of shock, the media dumping salt on an enormous open wound and not allowing them to grieve and heal.
ReplyDeleteThe awareness of what happened is rampant i.e. black ribbons, facebook groups, and bumper stickers, and I agree that this is a bandwagoners wet dream to display to everyone else that they are sensitive to those grieving. They aren't sympathetic, they are using empathy as a way of making themselves feel better. Prayer for victims need not be broadcast for self-righteousness, prayer should be between you and God.
Robert, I'm in complete agreement with you. This VT thing has bothered me, and I think about it every day. I've prayed for the families, and I'm sure many of the 'bumper sticker' grievers have too, but I agree with you that the process of how one deals with this issue should be a private matter.
ReplyDeleteYeah, well put. I couldn't agree more. I especially like how you mention how ESPN will probably mention it in the first week of the season and then it will be largely forgotten. That's really a shame because the pain and hurt the students, victims' families and those directly associated with VT will never go away, especially not by this fall. I think it's certainly true that some of the same ppl that are devouring the catch phrases haven't really taken the time to truly think about and process just what went on.
ReplyDeleteRight on, Chili. This is the first I've seen of it anywhere and I'm glad you weren't scared to write the truth.
ReplyDeleteHalf of the people who are proliferating these cute "sayings" like "Hokies in our Hearts" probably felt about one ounce of grief on that day. It's all about gaining attention and going with the crowd.
I actually laughed out loud the other night when I was getting ready to go out. It was about 11:00PM on Thursday night and I began reading some away messages. About five of them read, "Praying for VT".
WHAT? You're honestly praying for Virginia Tech at 11PM on Thursday night? Then I saw 2 of the people downtown...
My feelings on the event were pretty simple. I was shocked, but not saddened. I won't lie about that. I knew no one that was killed and I only know one person at VT. If it makes me heartless to not be sad about, then so be it. At least I'm honest...
It's just funny to me that a murder of 32 can draw such a reaction out of folks while 32 people are killed everyday in this country in murders. There's no outrage there, though.
I actually heard on the radio news the other day that the lead story was VT heading back to class after 32 people were killed. Know what the last story was? "93 people were reported dead in Iraq today, with 3 of them being U.S. soldiers." Where's the sadness over that?
It's all about the media bandwagon sadness effect. When Tiffany Souers was killed, all of Clemson was sad and angry. The media wasn't, though - therefore no one jumped on board with a national sadness campaign. Were 32 deaths more important than that one? Maybe...but not if you asked the Souers family.
As far as the VT game in October goes, I'm with you. It will have been six months. The people at VT can have as long as they want to grieve, but everyone else needs to move on. They don't want a ceremony everywhere they go and neither do I. Ideas of painting a "VT" on our field actually make me sick. Regardless of the shootings, these are still the same thugs who have taken Miami's place(sorta) as the bad boys of the ACC.
Keep up the good work.